life is not messy
Life is straightforward; a continuous cycle of beginnings and endings.
That’s it. It’s not messy. It’s not neat. It’s not complicated or controllable. It just is.
We’re fond of saying “life is messy” when we forget that.
We show that we have forgotten it when we concretely label the ups and downs of life as good and bad, when we react to situations with disbelief that something like this could happen to us, when we are frequently overcome by heavy emotions that are weighted down with distorted thoughts or even when we are running high on ecstatic thoughts at finding “it”, the answer to our problem.
In any moment when life seems particularly messy, pause, breathe and dig deep to find out what your underlying expectation or unspoken belief is for that particular moment. Then challenge it, exhale it and remember that the cycle is beyond good and bad.
It is just what it is.
If you don’t become the ocean, you’ll be seasick every day.